Choices are always there. it is just you, the one who is making the decision. Lets say you have two choices of guys to be ur bf or maybe ur future husband which goes like this :
A : He is older than you, rich perhaps. Big car, owned a house and good career too. Everything that a gal ever wanted. Lets look at this guy from the other point of view. Lets dont only judge a book by its cover aight. He is older than you, so he thought he can eventually controls you and understand what is right for you. He lied to you and he said " it is all to protect you". So when a guy is rich, he has lotsa gal frens who wanted to hang out with him. So u have to bear with it too.
When you complain, he said you wre too childish or maybe sometimes he lied bout hanging out with his gal frens n changed the fact into "im hanging out with my guy frens". Simple. You just have to bear with it and be ready when he lies to you again. COs its all good for you that you do not knw the truth, so you wont get hurt. But still we will get hurt wen we find out the truth that you have been lying after all this while. Other than that he is ok, he brings you to all the good restaurants n find good food to share with you. But other than that its all bout lies. HE once told me, there is no such guy that wont lie........cos gals do not love to hear the truth sometimes.
ONE question : Can u live in a lie?
B: He is a guy about ur age.. Just started to work. But because of you he is willing to get anything for you. If the moon is reachable im sure he will get it for you too. He just started to work, so he will be struggling now, to earn more money, to buy a house and n car so that you n him will have a better future. But again.. materials r just temporary, they are just accessories. Lets look at the bigger picture of this guy. All he ever wanted is the honesty from you, nothing much. He taught me to be honest to the person that I love, cause it is all about building the trust between us. Although i failed afew times, but each time wen I failed, I felt bad cause he really trusted me. So I told myself to try harder so I wont fail again. N he has tried everything to make sure that you can trust him, not even a single thing to make you feel uneasy or worried. You feel comfortable and safe. I guess this is what every normal gal ever wanted in their whole life. N he is always there to protect you and to comfort you when you are down. I was curious, does this guy ever existed in this world? Yes there is one. N am so lucky that I have found him. Thanks B (*wink*)
Thursday, May 6, 2010
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